routines

In the morning,quit smoking now, my hubby goes out on the deck for his cigarette, since he went back to it two weeks ago. I was going with him, even after I got my quit back. It was bugging me. Today, when he said, 'come outside with me?' I said, nah hon, I think I'm gonna sit in here and read the paper with my coffee instead. He was disappointed, I could tell. But I figure, if I make it pleasant, and be his non smoking, smoking buddy and it bugged me,stop smoking now, how is that a good thing? So, today he came in quicker after his morning cig and sat with me and we had coffee together.I don't want to establish the unhealthy routine of going out there with him every morning.I pledge not to smoke today. It's a beautiful day!!!Love, Wendy